It's
easy to think about celebrities in the media as living "the good life." Yet, there
wouldn't be stories for major tabloid magazines if famous stars lived perfect,
drama-free lives. Indeed, that makes them feel sometimes more or less human to
the rest of us. At the same time, a lot of these stories about celebrities tend
have roots in unhappiness — addictions, infidelity, disputes over wealth, and
mental health concerns are just some of the common tales. Despite vast amounts
of wealth and prestige, could it be that celebrities lack true meaning or
purpose in their lives?
This
example seems like an interesting case of the difference between hedonic and
eudaimonic well-being. Celebrities are deeply embedded in a world of
consumption, wealth, and pleasure-driven fascination. We hear about their
multiple vacation homes, party habits, collections of valuable possessions, elaborate
trips, and successes in a given industry. We also hear that many of them are
not very nice people, lacking the generosity, kindness, and self-awareness we
would want and expect in our friends. Some of these celebrities are popular because
they are so outrageous and unpredictable. On the other hand, people are often drawn
to celebrities described as "humble," "ordinary," or “down-to-earth"
because we want to find evidence that they are still dealing with human
problems and worries, underneath the layers of fame and fortune. Of course,
celebrities come in all types, from actors, to musicians, to philanthropists,
to TV hosts and personalities, to politicians, to athletes, to designers, to
inventors, to business executives. Additionally, the media is notorious for
sensationalizing news to make it more "interesting" and able to sell.
So are celebrities really all the same or do some live "better" lives
than others?
While
I don't know the answer, there are some trends that point to a state of unhappiness among celebrities, resulting from the pursuit of mainly hedonic goals.
Many celebrities' fame is the result of others' approval and admiration. They
live lives dictated by others, where their primary purpose is to look or act a
certain way, or represent a brand as to maintain feeling good. This results in
a pressure to be pretty much anyone but themselves, and a life continually in
the spotlight is exhausting. To deal with their unhappiness, many stars try to
buy their way out. They seek for meaning in empty places, because they can
afford it, rather than realizing what they need comes at a much cheaper price. For
example, what if celebrities spent more time on their relationships with
friends and family, set goals for personal growth, worked for causes that
transcended their own fame, and tried to make the world better for the less
financially privileged? Some celebrities do, whether it is the nature of their
job or a part of who they are as people. It seems like the exception rather
than the rule when we hear stars speak out about injustice, get arrested at a
protest, or challenge the status quo. I imagine there are few incentives to be
better people when many high performing industries are competitive (or
cutthroat), status-driven, and time-consuming. These industries are built to
motivate people to be the best at something, whether or not they become the
best people in the process. This seems especially true for stars who became
famous at a young age. Experiencing fame early on can mean less time for personal
growth and exploration during critical developmental periods. Too often, these
individuals reach a breaking point of questioning who they are. Perhaps they are caught up in a world
lacking trust, authenticity, and meaning that is not sustainable or supportive
for well-being.
I
sometimes wonder what would happen if actors only received a teacher's annual
salary, or athletes were not paid by the game, but by their demonstrations of
leadership and role-modeling. Or maybe what if celebrities were not paid at
all? What if being an entertainer was seen as volunteer time for the public
good, rather than something lucrative? We've seen even in the first weeks of
class that money only buys happiness up to a point, a point where people can take
care of themselves and their basic needs. And "basic needs" really
are universal, even though celebrities tell us all the luxury things they have
learned to not be able to live without. It is sad to me that many celebrities are paid
by industries that don’t seem to care about them as people and only want their
image. Celebrities are some of the biggest role-models for younger generations,
and this seems like a great opportunity to influence what success, happiness,
and living well looks like — separate from the money and fame. We could better appreciate
them as complex people and sharing our same goals, and have more examples of
the benefits of eudaimonic well-being.
Finally, on MLK Day it is important to remember the celebrity activists who have been long-standing examples of incorporating meaning and purpose into their everyday lives, sometimes because they are fighting for their right to life. The keynote presentation this morning was a good reminder to me of how recently journalists and artists leverage justice and truth to drive their work forward - hopefully these will continue to push others to think critically about their work in other industries as well.
Finally, on MLK Day it is important to remember the celebrity activists who have been long-standing examples of incorporating meaning and purpose into their everyday lives, sometimes because they are fighting for their right to life. The keynote presentation this morning was a good reminder to me of how recently journalists and artists leverage justice and truth to drive their work forward - hopefully these will continue to push others to think critically about their work in other industries as well.
Resources:
- McGregor, I. & B. Little (1998). Personal projects, happiness, and meaning: On doing well and being yourself. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 74(2): 494-512.
- http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/27/pat-obrien-celebrities-happy_n_5717815.html
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/insight-is-2020/201010/celebrities-are-you-really-happy
- http://www.businessinsider.com/does-being-rich-make-you-happy-2013-12
I find your comment about how some celebrities do "work for causes larger than themselves" and "prioritize relationships with family and friends" to be intriguing - based on what we've discussed in class regarding eudaimonic well-being, those who pursue such goals should theoretically be better off. However, this is not universal. For example, Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt, a couple that has contributed to humanitarian efforts, supported causes such as the marriage equality, and adopted and nurtured multiple children, has recently received media attention for their unexpected divorce. As this action implies some unhappiness and dissatisfaction, we can assume that these numerous actions were not enough. Is this and other similar scenarios a symptom of larger faults of fame, such as pressure to live up to an image, stress, or erratic daily schedules? Or, does this trace back to the Identity Groups explored by McGregor and Little, i.e. some celebrities are satisfied by fun and working with others, while some need other “Personal Projects” for well-being?
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